Happiness - a choice

I want to be happy.
I can be happy.
It's in my hands to be happy.
My choices can make me happy.
My choices can or cannot be accepted by people who can make me happy.
I have to sometimes make them unhappy if I have to be happy.
But when they are unhappy, I tend to be unhappy too.
So happiness is as much my choice as I let others' choice to
Influence me
But I don't want to accept others choice.
They make me unhappy.
But I want to be happy.
So to be happy, I need to be selfish.
(Hah! Brilliant!)

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